Thursday, March 13, 2014

One Year!

MARCH 13, 2014 . . .

Hermana Hoj, Hermana Burnham y Hermana McOmbre
  
On March 13, 2013, our sweet daughter, Hermana Burnham, entered the Missionary Training Center, in Provo, Utah, to begin this wonderful journey of serving as a full-time missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  I cannot believe that it has been a year already.  At the same time, I cannot believe how slowly the days pass sometimes.  It is a strange dichotomy! 

I absolutely LOVE being a missionary mom.  I know that there is no place she would rather be at this time in her life, and there is no place we would rather have her be right now.  What a marvelous and personal blessing for our family. 

Thank you all for your love and support of this wonderful young woman. 

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Pictures!

 
Stolen from Hermana McOmbre's blog:
 
 
 

Flooded Streets

Hermana Burnham receives Girl Scout cookies (Thanks, Amber!)

Hermanas Mower, Hoj, Burnham, Driesel and McOmbre

The One About Prayer


March 10, 2014 

I have probably named an email this already, but it is a pretty important topic, so it can be duplicated. It is also played a HUGE role in my mission, so, another reason I do not mind duplicating it.  

First, can I just talk a little bit about Spanish? I have come to a [personal] conclusion about Spanish. People who serve in other countries become fluent quicker because they are totally immersed in another language. This causes them to develop a Spanish brain and an English brain. A side effect of this is, if not kept up well, they can lose their Spanish brain when once again immersed in English. People who serve in America, speaking Spanish, may not become as fluent as those who serve outside of the country. Of course there are the exceptions—people who learn the language really fast and well, but we are talking generals here. As a result of serving in America, speaking Spanish, you develop what I like to call "SbMrUaSiHn" where you think and talk in both languages at the same time. Some people refer to this as Spanglish. This has been the case with me. This "smushbrain" has caused me to say things such as "porcause" and pause because I can no longer think in any language. It is a common side effect to have long lapses of time where you can think in neither English nor Spanish. Upside of Spanish speaking in America, you have been forced to learn Spanish on your own, without the aid of immersion, being constantly surrounded by English; so, the Spanish that is learned is much harder to forget. That is the conclusion I came up with this week about Spanish.

We had the great experience this week of finding two new FAMILIES to teach. We love families! We had decided as a companionship to pray that we would be able to find a family to teach, but in true pattern with the blessings of the Lord, we received more than what we asked for! The Lord is so good to us!
 
In addition to that answer to prayer, this week there were several times when I was feeling rather sick. One time, after walking for several hours, I do believe I pulled a muscle of some sort. After walking for an hour I was finally like, "Hey, can we sit down and take a little breather?" We sat down and I said a little prayer in my heart that I would be able to make it the rest of the way home without the pain. I stood up and the pain was gone. It never returned! Then several other times during the week I was in situations where I just pleaded in my heart for the Lord to help me get through a lesson or meeting and I was IMMEDIATELY relieved of my sickness. I feel like one of those "Godpost" writers writing you about these things, but this is real life! They aren’t coincidences; they are answers to prayers! And again, in the true pattern of the Lord, I have felt the blessings tenfold what I have asked. I have found, with this sickness, that the days I am most sick are on Mondays, P-Days, days where I do not have to be out. The days where I have asked the Lord to get me through, the days when I have work to do, I can get up and go out with little to no problem. The Lord blesses us! He answers prays!

I was studying today in 1st Nephi, chapter 17, and verses 8-10 caught my attention:

8 “And it came to pass that the Lord spake unto me, saying: Thou shalt construct a ship, after the manner which I shall show thee, that I may carry thy people across these waters.

 9 And I said: Lord, whither shall I go that I may find ore to molten, that I may make tools to construct the ship after the manner which thou hast shown unto me?

 10 And it came to pass that the Lord told me whither I should go to find ore, that I might make tools.”

The Lord gave Nephi a commandment that he was not quite sure how to fulfill. So what did Nephi do? He prayed. How did he pray, I ask? Did he say "How do I do it?" No, he came up with a solution.  He realized the first step—he needed tools. He went to the Lord asking where to go find this type of material, so that he could make tools, after the manner he had been shown. He was specific.  Specific prayers receive specific answers.  

I love you all,

Hermana Burnham


The following I stole from Hermana Hoj's blog:

"Speaking of families...we took a little time this week to do some family history and I found some awesome stuff! I found the stories of the people mom told me about who knew Joseph Smith and kept reading more about them and on that line. There is some seriously amazing information in there! Some of them got their patriarchal blessings from Hyrum Smith, some were imprisoned for defending Joseph...whoo! Sooo cool!! Found out that one of our ancestors (I think his name is John Taylor) was one of the 20 men picked to be Joseph's bodyguard. And guess what? One of Hermana McOmber's relatives also was one of them. And then Hermana Burnham's relatives knew Joseph too, so we're thinking that they all knew each other! How cool that they were working together to help others come to Christ's church, and here the three of us are today doing the exact same thing. And again, SO COOL!!!!"

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Pictures -- March 4, 2014

 
I received two disks full of pictures yesterday afternoon.  Here are a selected few, in random order:
 
 


I love that she has a "wall" of things sent to her by family and friends.

Just a bit of rain . . .



I sent her a new pair of shoes for her birthday (same brand, different color).

 
She sent comparison pictures of the new shoes and those that are 11 months old!

Happy Birthday, Hermana Burnham.
So grateful for the sweet family that made her a cake.

And the missionaries that silly stringed her . . .

 
I love this picture of Hermana Burnham and Hermana Hoj.
 

Monday, March 3, 2014

The One With F Round 4


March 3, 2014 
 
Just a silly sign that we saw . . .

Birthday gift from the Adams family
I love it!
We had stake conference this week! Elder Pino from the Seventy came. It is so fun to be in an all-Spanish stake.  It was a blessing to have a general authority to speak with them in Spanish, as well.  It was a grand ol' time.  Missionaries do not usually attend the Saturday session, but we did and all the missionaries sang "Called to Serve."  If anyone is unaware, since beginning my mission, I can NOT sing that song without getting choked up aaaaaaand I'm a missionary, so we kind of sing it a lot. But, it was a great opportunity to serve our Stake and also to hear Elder Pino speak.  Here are some notes I took from the meetings:

"Just like God has called more missionaries to serve, He has prepared more people to receive the message they bear."

"Our success [in this Stake Conference] will be found in what we take, and then implement in our lives."

"We cannot assume others know how much we love them. We have to tell them!"

"If you want to be free, put your own house in order."

"Yo testifico que El es un ser real." (This one has more meaning in Spanish, in my opinion.) I wish ya’ll could have heard him say that--it was powerful.  What a privilege.

I think the best part of the night, though, was seeing all the families from Waller (they turned into the chapel and the little kids, in unision, "HNA B!!!!!" I could’ve died; it was such a happy moment), except for 1 of my old missionary companions and F.

Remember F? He was a menos activo that we found by miracle one night? He then bought us papusas like every week and gave us TONS of mangos? He then proceeded to fall off the face of the planet and be re-found THRICE. Well, he happens to actually live in the ward where Hna Parry is serving and is in our stake.  I spotted him as we were singing and BEE-LINED it to him after the meeting was over. I shook his hand and was like: "HERMANO!!!! I’M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU!!"  He got really serious and just goes: "Hermana B, I know that when you found me I was in the Church and then out of the Church.  But I want you to know that I am IN the Church.  I am in it.  I am not going anywhere.  I am preparing to receive the priesthood. I have my paper (that's what he called it, haha) for the Temple. Thank you . . . thank you for serving."

It was one of the greatest tender mercies I have received from Heavenly Father on my mission (to be able to see and talk with him in person) . He is one of the greatest miracles I have witnessed and I love him.

What a grand opportunity I have, right now, to dedicate all of who I am to this great work. What a blessing we have been given as missionaries to participate in the work of Salvation--for truly that is what it is.

Love,
Hermana B

Shout outKirstin, Luke and Kids: Thank you for the birthday package! I loved it. I especially loved the mustache cup and I use it every day. My favorite part of the mustache cup is the human hair that is caught between the walls--so it doesn’t touch my water, but is totally visible. It is my deepest wish that that is a hair from someone's mustache.  Pictures included. Love you guys.

One more shout out for the blog:  Chloe Baker: HAPPY  BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!

 

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Zone Conference Picture



Just a simple picture . . .


Zone Conference
(Stolen from the mission blog)

Monday, February 24, 2014

The One with the Cubanos!


February 24, 2014
Our investigators with their CTR rings!
(Notice in the background, Hna Hoj giving the investigator a Book of Mormon)

Puppies
This was one of those weeks where nothing in particular stood out as, like, "THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED TO EMAIL HOME!"   It was a great week!  But, sorry if this email is a little lame.
1.  Puppies.   I spent a good deal of a few of my days with a specific few dogs, that I feel were a part of my missionary service.   Animals and children – I’m telling ya, those have been a theme of my mission. But anyway, we were tracting and we knocked on a door of this one trailer.  As we knock, we see a huge German Shepherd emerge from under a pile of garbage.  In my mind, I think: “Yupp, this is the end of my life...I am about to perish."   But, turns out it was the nicest dog known to man! We named him Lazos. He emerges and starts licking us and what not, when we hear these cries from another dog coming from the yard.  We look behind more piles of trash and find another German Shepherd chained up.  It was the skinniest dog I have EVER seen. You could see every single bone of the body of this dog.  She was just crying and crying.  I immediately start making my way through the piles of trash to this little thing (the people weren't home, btw).  Once I got close I went with caution because I didn't know if she was going to be mean or not. But finally, I get to her and she just comes and lays her head on my chest (yes, that is how big she was) and, tambien, is the nicest dog ever.  I pull out the baby food I have in my purse and start to squeeze it into my hand for her to eat. After she finishes her baby food she walks over to a little igloo kennel and starts to whimper.  I walk over . . . and discover 8 little babies. They had to have been only a few days old. It was so heart breaking. This dog was SO SKINNY, there was no way it had eaten in dayyyyys which means those babies hadn't eaten either. So to sum it up, I was heartbroken.  We went back a few days later and brought water and some homemade dog food for Mamita (that's what I named the girl GS).  We didn't touch the babies the first time b/c we were scared she might be angry, but we held them the second time around and they were so cute.  It was equally as heart breaking. We called the ASPCA to come and get them.
2.  Cubanos.  There was one day, Saturday (it is always Saturday), when all of our plans had fallen through and all of our back up plans and all of our back up back up plans, so we were standing in the road thinking, "Well, what are we going to do now?"  A few blocks away there is a little strip mall of sorts with a Panderia and a washeteria y algunas taquerias, so I was like "Let's just walk down to the Panderia and see if there is anyone we can talk to”.   We get down there and there is no one. Ha. Great.  But, there was a bench outside the washeteria  so I was like, "Let's go sit on the bench and we will figure it out from there."  We walk over and sit down and start to talk about where we could go or what we could do. It was getting dark and we were in a "part of town" (aka one block) that is a little "rougher" (Not even CLOSEEEE to Gulfbank) that we aren't supposed to be in once it gets dark, so we were trying so hard to think of places we could go. After a few minutes two men walk out of the washeteria and I thought, "That is an interesting accent.....Argentina?  No. Colombia? No.  Where are they from?"  There was even one point when I wasn't sure they were even speaking Spanish.  I leaned forward and said, "Habla Espanol?" They were like, "Duh" (that isn't actually what they said, haha).   I said:  "Where are you from?"  They replied with some city that I had never heard of.  I say:  "Okay, de cual PAIS?"  And they say, in unison, "CUBA! Somos Cubanos!"   Oh man! I was so excited! I have only known two Cubans my whole mission and they are my favorite because their Spanish is so different.. It is like trying to put a puzzle together. We start chatting and got through all the pleasantries, etc.,  etc.,  and finally got to the gospel.  A had met with missionaries, but stopped because of his wife. When I asked if they had ever heard of the Book of Mormon  A is like, "Yeah, I have one!"  Haha.  Then I started to talk to J and he goes off about polygamy and food storage.  He had a really deep positive understanding of both subjects. I offered him the Book of Mormon in my hands and he gladly accepted it and told me, without me even inviting him, that he was going to read it.  They were just up here from Miami, so I won’t be seeing them again . . . except for maybe in Heaven. :)
It was a small moment, but a testimony builder that as missionaries, sometimes our plans don't work out; but, as long as we are doing our best, Heavenly Father will place people in our path that we can share the gospel with.  It goes for members and missionaries alike--just open your mouth!
Plus, we ended the conversation with "Hey, cuando los misioneros pasan por su casa...abra la puerta, okay?"  To which they responded with:  "Claro hermanita" (World, feel free to correct that Spanish)
I love you! Bye!